T he curtain fell on Marcel’s holiday play over the weekend. It was such fun. There was family in town especially for the show and everyone drank eggnog together after opening night. It seemed like the temperature even dropped in the spirit of the season. The cast sang Feliz Navidad twice at the last show, I kid you not. To participate in all of the performances, though, we needed to make arrangements for him to be out of school for a couple of days. Teachers were e-mailed, assignments were moved up or around so that Marcel didn’t see the inside of his middle school after last Wednesday. But today I found myself sitting in a meeting with a teacher about Marcel in which his…